Listen up, ladies: if you’re struggling to attract the man of your dreams, it’s all on you.
We’re not saying that to be mean!
We’re going to teach you how to alter your perception, RIGHT NOW, so you can learn how to attract a specific man using the law of attraction.
Though it’s going to take a bit of time and effort on your part, it’s simple and easy to understand. You can get started on it as soon as you finish reading this article.
Sound good? …. Great!
Here’s what you need to do to overhaul your mental climate and attract the man of your dreams:
1) Take A Look At How You Treat Yourself.
If you don’t look after yourself, or if you spend all your time berating yourself and insisting that you are going to be alone forever (and believe us, we’ve been there), you’re sabotaging your dating efforts.
When you treat yourself as someone unworthy of love and affection, you’re sending negative signals out to the universe.
If it’s obvious that you don’t think you’re worthy, how can you expect a man to see your worth?
So pamper yourself …
Wink at yourself in the mirror …
Leave lipstick kisses on the mirror every morning, … if you have to!
2) Be Careful How You Treat Others.
This is one of the most important pieces of the law of attraction, and it isn’t isolated to the dating world.
Treat everyone around you the way that you would like to be treated.
Be respectful to service workers, smile at strangers on the street, and do favors for friends.
If you exude love and positivity, people who have love to give will be drawn to you.
You can’t spend most of your life being rude or unfriendly and expect your dating life to be full of love and sweetness!
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
If a certain behavior, activity or even outfit repeatedly fails to meet your needs, get rid of it and replace it with something totally new.
You don’t have the love that you want right now, so clearly something is missing!
Try new things until you find the key factor that will trigger the response you want.
Approach your dating relationship like a scientist looking for the cure to loneliness, or like a chef trying to improve the taste of their lasagna.
If you use the same recipe today that you did last week, you’re going to get the same result!
4) Be Accepting And Withhold Judgment.
This goes back to number two.
Nobody finds the man of their dreams on the first date.
Even if you know that the guy you just sat down with is not going to be right for you, be kind and loving to him.
Be friendly, joke around with him, and try to find the things that are positive about him.
This doesn’t mean you have to lie and tell him you want a second date.
Just try to make the date as positive of an experience as you possibly can, and consider it practice for next time.
If you both part ways feeling good about some aspect of your interaction (regardless of whether or not it led to a second date), you will both be setting yourselves up for more positive dating experiences.