The law of attraction states, simply put, that like attracts like.
Every positive or negative thing that happens to you, every loyal friend and back-stabbing enemy, every success and failure, is the result of your thoughts and actions.
If you want a specific outcome, you can alter your own behavior to attract that outcome to you.
That may seem pretty straightforward if we’re talking about achieving weight loss goals or finishing a project, …
but can the same rule apply to the dating world? … You bet.
If you want to learn how to manifest a woman using the law of attraction, you’ve come to the right place.
The first step to utilizing the law of attraction is to get a handle on your own thoughts.
Your thoughts and expectations form self-fulfilling prophecies, so if you expect nothing but negativity, you’ll continually find yourself pushed aside.
Without confidence, you’ll be ignored and best and abused at worst.
By focusing on positive outcomes, you will attract positivity into your life.
What does this mean in the dating world?
Expect the best outcome.
No matter how scary it may be to approach a woman, or to put yourself in a situation where women can approach you, you have to crush your fears and hope for the best!
If you sit in the corner, drowning your sorrows in beer and telling yourself that no woman will ever want you because you’re too fat/broke/ugly/awkward, guess what? …
Women will avoid you.
Walk into the room fully expecting to have a positive encounter.
If you’re feeling discouraged, it isn’t the right time to put yourself out there.
Before you step into the dating world, make sure you can walk in there with your shoulders back and a smile on your face.
It will make all the difference.
Does it sound like magical thinking?
It shouldn’t– the law of attraction isn’t a wish-granting genie, after all.
The law of attraction simply states that your mind is powerful enough to sway the events in your life.
Your brain can nudge the pendulum to swing in a positive direction, or in a negative direction.
Think about your own dating life. Do you pursue women who slouch when they walk and constantly talk about how no one will ever love them? No!
That attitude doesn’t attract your love, so why should it attract someone else’s?
Now, we know what you’re thinking.
How can I simply choose to expect good things to happen?
Completely changing your mental makeup is difficult, but not impossible.
Here are two ways to shift your dating expectations in a positive direction:
1) Give yourself pep talks.
This doesn’t necessarily have to be five minutes psyching yourself up in the mirror.
Just encourage yourself the way you would your best friend!
Tell yourself, before you approach a woman, that you very well may get her number.
Tell yourself that your cologne smells great and you’ve got a great conversation-starter.
Give yourself encouragement.
2) Do some research to make yourself feel like an expert.
Instead of flying blind, figure out what it is that women want!
Listen to female friends and family members, read articles online, and don’t be afraid to eavesdrop on the group of single women sitting in the table behind you at lunch (hey, it’s not creepy; it’s research!).
If you feel like you have a strong grasp on what it is what women want, you will feel better about your chances.