So you’ve heard about people using the law of attraction for improving health, job opportunities and even their love life, but you have a hard time understanding what any of that stuff means.
What is the law of attraction? How can I use it to my advantage?
We’re here to help.
Here is a list of tips that will get you started down the path of learning how to use the law of attraction to get the relationship you want:
1) Determine What You Want.
You can’t achieve a goal without figuring out what it is you want to achieve, and the same goes for relationships.
Do you want your partner to support your hobbies or career goals?
Do you want to attract a new partner who is funny and adventurous?
Are you looking for a partner who wants to settle down, build a house with a white picket fence and have four kids?
Sit down, clear your mind, and come up with a picture of exactly what you want. If you think it’ll help you, write it down or draw a picture.
Anything you can do that will help add clarity to your goals will benefit you in the long run.
2) Get Rid Of Outside Influences.
The most important part of determining your wants is to eliminate outside expectations.
What you want is not the same as what your parents may want, and it may not be the same thing that your friends or even your partner want, either.
When you’re trying to figure out your desires, take off the filter.
Nothing is off limits … Don’t modify your wishes with someone else’s wants or desires.
This is your head, and in your head, what you say goes.
3) Be Confident; Expect To Achieve Your Goals.
Once you know what you want, immediately start expecting it.
Pretend that you’re a ten-year-old who peeked into Mom’s closet and found that they’re getting exactly what they want on Christmas day.
Know that you are going to get what you want out of your relationship, and all you have to do is wait for the day when you will get to unwrap your present.
If it helps you, give yourself a pep talk every morning, or in the car on your way home after work.
Tell yourself that you deserve good things.
Stop saying that you have terrible luck. Expectations form self-fulfilling prophecies.
Do you want those prophecies to be good, or bad?
4) Exude Positive Energy As Much As Possible.
Don’t limit your positivity to the thing you want the most!
While you’re being understanding and loving towards your partner or potential partner, extend that courtesy to everyone else.
Be friendly to cashiers, resist the urge to yell at the guy who cut you off on the freeway, and gently shift your brain in a different direction when judgment or negativity creeps into the picture.
Negative wishes and expectations can seep into every aspect of your life.
After all, how are you supposed to form a loving relationship if you spend most of the day treating everyone around you like they’re enemies?
This has been a very basic overview of how to manifest your desires, with a focus on relationships ….
If you would like to turbo charge the law of attraction, so that you can manifest any of your desires, then you need to flip a simple switch in your mind.
To flip that switch, you need to watch the free video, that we’ve linked to below.