We often hear that the first step to achieving our dreams is to create a perfect image of what we want, but that’s easier said than done.
Visualization can be difficult even for people who have used it as a means to an end for years …
And when you use it on relationships, it gets even trickier!
Here are some great tips that will teach you how to visualize the relationship you want, which will take you that much closer to going out there and getting it.
1) Visualize What You Want … Not What You Want To Avoid.
Don’t waste mental energy thinking of all the things you want to avoid.
Instead of think in terms of protecting yourself from negativity, flip it around so you are trying to draw in positivity.
Instead of saying “I don’t want selfish love,” say, “I want selfless love.”
Simple changes in the way you word your desires can do a whole lot to improve your outlook and refine your desires, which is important.
Thinking of what you DO want works a lot better than thinking of what you DON’T want.
If you focus on what you don’t want, the universe has to try to fill in the gaps!
2) Be As Detailed As Possible.
The more sensory information you can bring into your visualization, the better.
If you want an adventurous partner, imagine one of the adventures you might go on.
If you want a partner who is eager to settle down and have children, imagine (in detail) the house you might buy together.
How will you decorate your bedroom?
Will you try to buy a house with a pool, or would your future partner rather put up a volleyball net?
Picture you and your partner holding hands on the beach.
Imagine yourselves sharing a kiss on New Year’s Eve between glasses of bubbly champagne.
Make the image as real and tangible as possible.
3) Imagine How You Will Feel When Love Comes Into Your Life.
Visualization is useless if you leave all the emotions out of it … want and anticipation are the catalysts that make visualization work so well!
When you’re imagining your partner walking into your life with a bouquet of flowers, don’t forget to let yourself feel everything that goes along with it.
How will it feel to finally find love?
Let yourself taste a bit of the excitement, warmth or even relief that comes along with getting what you’ve wanted for so long.
Approach visualization with the same sense of very real excitement that you feel, when you shake a birthday gift to try to figure out what’s inside.
4) Be Patient And Confident.
The single most important aspect of visualization?
You need to believe that it is going to work.
If you don’t let yourself feel that you deserve love, and that love will come into your life, all you’re doing is playing pretend.
Be patient and do not let yourself get desperate.
Remind yourself that love will come. As long as you are eager to give and receive love, you are open to receiving your perfect partner.
To improve your manifestation ability, and attract the relationship you desire, you really need to dramatically change the way you naturally think.
Thankfully with the right techniques, this is as simple as flipping a switch inside your brain!
To find out more, and flip your mental switch … follow the link below to watch the free video.