Fixing a long distance relationship is about as complicated as trying to understand a foreign language you have never, ever heard of before in your life.
There are so many factors in a relationship that fixing things comes down to simply sorting out the problem, forgiving or not and moving on.
Focus On What You Can Control:
While that sounds like simplifying a complex situation, think about it … that is essentially what it takes to fix an LDR relationship.
Somebody was wrong, somebody was done wrong, and both must agree to forgive and move on.
That being said, the only thing about a relationship you can control is yourself.
If your relationship has fallen apart due to whatever circumstances, it is understandable that you will be devastated and upset even if the ending of things was your call.
Don’t Let Your Emotions Dictate Your Actions:
Emotions will be even higher if the ending of things was not your call and it was something you did not envision at all.
Emotions run high amid relationship troubles. This is when instead of reacting, you should stop.
Cease all action on seeking how to fix the long distance relationship and just be for a bit.
Learn to control your emotions and think about the relationship while you are doing so.
All too often when a relationship goes wrong, people try to do everything they can to change themselves in order to suit the other person and hopefully fix the relationship.
This is not a solution for the long term, but merely a band-aid for the short term—if it even works at all.
Remember Happiness Comes From Within:
By focusing on yourself and what you want to do in life, changes that you want to make or not make, you can bring about happiness on your own.
If the relationship can be salvaged after this, great; but if not, you know you have done what it takes to be happy in spite of it.
Asking how to fix a long distance broken relationship is an open-ended, big question that really and truly has no answer.
The specifics of each and every relationship have to be taken into consideration when undertaking a fix.
The most important thing is that you learn to move on, to find happiness in your life, to take control of the things you do have control over instead of focusing on fixing a relationship that may or may not be fixable.
This is not to say you shouldn’t try; it’s to say focus on what you can control and the rest will fall into place.
Also if your relationship is in severe trouble, or really on the rocks, consider using the law of attraction to help you. Read our article on how it relates to a specific person.
Or click the link below to watch a great video on how to get the romance back in your relationship, using text messages.