Let me ask you… do you truly know how to win her back?
I am guessing you have been trying everything that you would think would work to get her back, and have only ended up pushing her further away, and making the situation worse.
Believe it or not, the way to win your girlfriend or wife back is not with gifts, drunken texts, pleading with her, or showering her with affection.
I am sure this may be quite a revelation for some men!
Just about every man has thought that repeating their undying love for a women, and repeatedly appearing with gifts and flowers, was a way back into a woman’s heart.
This smothering approach will only do one thing and that’s well….. smother her…. and just drive her further and further away … essentially destroying any chances of having a relationship with her again.
As a male, I am sure you understand that you have a very different view on life, and more specifically relationships than woman!
So things that may sound like the right thing to do, or heaven forbid logical, are more often than not the worst thing to do.
What may seem appealing to you is most likely not going to be appealing to her.
To make matters worse your ex will already have a great deal of emotion when it comes to you, so doing anything that maybe off putting can be very dangerous to your future relationship prospects.
So what is the best action to take?
Well to put it bluntly…. the best action is no action!
I know that may seem a bit illogical at first, but it is honestly the best thing to do.
Don’t be afraid that she is instantly going to find someone else or forget about you …
To be honest it will give her a chance to miss you.
But more importantly it will give your ex a chance to deal with the situation, and her emotions as a result of it…. You also need to do the same yourself!
Well you need to get over those initial emotions of the break up.
If you don’t all your actions will be driven by your overwhelming emotions when you see or think of your ex.
You will not be able to think clearly, and your emotions will drive you to do things that will only make the situation worse.
Dealing with your emotions:
It’s very important that you take time to acknowledge your emotions.
Chances are your emotions when it comes to your ex will be very strong at the moment.
Cry if you have to!….
I am serious, let it all out, and accept and acknowledge your emotions. That’s the only way to overcome them. There is no use to bottling them up.
Whilst you are dealing with your emotions and keeping a bit of distance between you and your ex, it’s a perfect time for you to gain some perspective on the relationship you had with your ex.
This is your time to think about the relationship and how things went.
Consider if you really want to win her back!
Is the relationship really worth salvaging?
Are you looking for more out of a relationship, that your ex just couldn’t give you?
Do you really want to proceed on a course of learning how to win her back?…….
Lets go a bit further with this….. what do you want out of life? What makes YOU happy?
If continuing a relationship with your ex fits into that then that’s great! If not then its probably best that you move on …
Should you decide that you would like to win her back, you need to remember that even at this stage of the game, giving her space is still absolutely vital.
So why the space?
Well have you heard the saying that, “absence makes the heart grow stronger”? Well there is a lot of truth to it in this situation.
But … this does not mean that the situation will resolve itself and you will get your ex back just by keeping your distance.
So how long do you give her space for? What do you do after that?
Well first let me say that whilst you are giving your ex space, you need to go out and live your life to the full.
Go and do what makes you happy. This happiness will reflect in you and will only help the situation with your ex.
Your ex will start to see you in a new light, and remember the guy she first fell in love with!
Now when it comes to how long to give your ex space for, and what to do after that in order to get her back.
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